This is an interesting question that could only come from someone who’s studied game. Both value and comfort are GOOD things. So there is no such thing as too much of either… the issue comes from ratio, as I explain in this video.
There are some really strange ideas floating around about self-amusement. Let me clear some things up for you. Firstly, self-amusement is not inherently attractive… yes I said it. Self-amusement is mainly just a gimmick designed to eliminate a few beginner mistakes.
Lots of guys have a preference for a specific type of game. And that’s a GOOD thing. You should do what you are best and, happiest doing, and get results from. However, there are some very important reasons for doing other forms of game and learning other skills.
Finding the type of girls you want involves more than skill. It involves having the right strategy and knowing what you’re looking for. It’s time to remove the guesswork from that part of the process.
The OPEN-Close model includes all the elements of an interaction with a girl that create a deep and meaningful relationship with her. The question is when and to what degree do you use them?